Relationships are complicated. We all come into this world with nothing, and we pull pieces and have pieces removed as we interact and have relation with others. Some pieces are full of love, joy and hope. So pieces are full of pain, anger and doubts. You spend an entire lifetime picking up and putting pieces back into place. One must find the person who is willing to stand beside them, both arms filled with all the pieces. It is the person that says, lie them down and let's sort through them that you must appreciate and realize, they are it. They are the one who is worthy of risk. The one who is willing to sift through the pieces, and to share with your their pieces as well ~ and this isn't just the brokenness, this is everything. The love, joy, hope, pain, anger and doubt all of it. No holding back. When you find that person, hold on.
I have pieces. I have many pieces, many happy pieces. And I have brokenness in my pieces. I am a work in progress. I am willing with the right person, to place my pieces out and sift ~ as we sift together through our lives, finding in the mix of this a friendship that brings a bond, that brings a relationship, that brings laughter. Because ultimately that is what I am longing for in life. A life full of laughter and a love that should be a happy ever after.
Relationships really are not so complicated, we simply complicate them. Here is to pieces to be laid out, hearts that find happiness and lessons along the way that bring you to a place where you can reflect and see that everything happens for a reason.
God is good. I woke this morning and while saying my prayers came to the understanding of many things that took place over the past few months, due to the relationship I was in. There were blessings in having him in my life for that short period, God used him as a vessel to guide me to healing in other areas. For that I am very grateful.
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